It's come up on numerous occasions about rulesy ways of handling flaky friends. The word friend shouldn't be used very loosely. In terms of friendship, you have to evaluate what sort of friend they have been and if they have always been flaky, ask yourself "Why do i let this person treat me this way?" Remember, we teach others how to treat us! #selflove
Friendships are suppose to be mutual. In All The Rules the original rules book in the chapter titled Rules for girlfriends, Bosses/Coworkers, and Children, point two made in this chapter pretty much says it all. Please read that chapter if you are seeking advice or ruminating over the relationship of a girlfriend (your friend).
We simply have two methods of dealing with flaky friends...
1) Pull back abit and see what happens
2) Cut them out your life...NEXT!
If you have a friend who is simply all drama or just uses you, this person falls into the NEXT category aswell!