E tethering, Mr Consumer, Mr String you along…roundy roundy thoughts?...rulesgirl get a clue his times up..ding dong!!
Rulesgirls do not allow themselves to be stringed along. You can only get strung along when you are too caught up and not paying attention at every stage. Dearest readers, some of you may be quick to disagree with my statement but as a rules coach I know other rules coaches and even other dating experts will agree!
Here’s the thing, if you are doing the rules as written (which a Rulesgirl does), consistently evaluating and observing a man's behavior towards you (i.e., how he treats you) YOU CANNOT BE STRINGED ALONG. YOU WON'T LIE TO YOURSELF. You won’t lie to yourself when you see the first sign of trouble or some red flags. Pink flags mean tread carefully. Don't ignore the red flags either! Don't brush them back in your mascara container. A CUAO is present and understands that if a man isn't treating her good consistently, the "relationship" isn't going to end up in the way she wants it to occur. Therefore, she's done! She sees the signs quickly because her mind is NOT filled up with a hopeless romance fantasy, her mind and actions are in line with REALITY.
What about girls in "relationships" where they feel it’s going somewhere? Are you actually in a relationship? Again, are you paying CLOSE attention to his behavior? So in other words, do you feel it's going somewhere but really if it's put to the test, it's going nowhere?! No engagement ring, no dates just spouts of messages. Does he mention the M word? Are their complications like divorce proceedings or he's Mr Married and not making divorce proceedings but lives separated but wants to start something with you but he isn't consistent? Did he claim that he told his grand father or mother about you but still hasn't made date zero or date 1 or other follow up dates happen and he’s just texting you once in a while here and there? DON'T DECEIVE YOURSELF! Actions speak and they speak volumes. If you are experiencing these things or special circumstances, please book a consultation now to sort through this.
A woman who has become a real rules girl, a true CUAO understands that if a man isn't making plans but is just speaking about them or giving her crumbs to hold on to, he's not treating her like his dream girl. It’s nothing! He's treating her like a second runner up prize/second class citizen. Almost as if to say to you "You weren't first choice babe but, you'll have to do for every now and then." SO DO NOT DECEIVE YOURSELVES.
SHERRIE stresses the point of being in reality and seeing things as they are because the minute you stop seeing things as they are, you lose yourself, you lose clarity and then a man can gain control over you. Master yourself. Master your emotions, Master mindfulness. Master the art of having a present mind in all things. Rules girls (i.e., a principled woman/a woman who doesn't do what most women would do/a woman with dignity and boundaries. Being a principled woman doesn't make you a liar. It makes you a sensible and empowered woman) are in control of their minds and emotions. ARE YOU IN CONTROL OF YOUR MIND AND EMOTIONS? IF NOT, you need to learn the CUAO Mindset. I have created a special programme just to deal with mindset modification rooted in The rules, psychology, epistemology, biology, neuropsychology, humanology sexology and behavioural psychology/behaviorism. Your mind is the garden for quickening the transformative spirit and mindset of the ultimate CUAO. If you would like to join the course, please email me NOW or make a purchase on my website. Once you control your emotions, you control your actions because emotions can quickly become action urges. Be led by The rules not your overwhelming emotions or desire to sleep with him on the first date or your strong emotional connection to him which makes you think it’s more than it really is. That is where self-discipline and the CUAO mindset help you. REMEMBER: BEFORE YOU DO A THING, OR CONSIDER DOING A THING, IT WAS FIRST A T________! First 2 people to tell me the answer for that gets "A Quick question" session with me for the price of £3.00
So if there is a man in your life who you like very much, ask yourself is this man treating me good consistently? How good? (That question isn’t about gold digging either). Is he planning dates? What is he really doing to prove he really likes me and must have me in his life? Is he making consistent Saturday night date plans with me? OR Is he the full fat header guy, where he fulls your head with compliments and sends you sweet messages but again no dates, nothing? OR Are you telling yourself we went out once or twice and I rarely hear from him but he still texts me sometimes so he must like me and so he may ask me out again soon? ALL I HEAR IS RARELY, SOMETIMES, MAY = YOU ARE UNSURE ABOUT HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU! WHEN REALLY HE SHOULD BE UNSURE ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM! Re-read that again.
If he's the latter, you're ALLOWING yourself to be stringed along! Your time is being heavily consumed. If you even respond to his texts/whatsapp/ichat/googlehangout messages that are not about dates and making it happen - forget it. This man isn't in love with you. No rules girl will ever put up with behaviour that tells her she is his backup plan or his second prize or good for now girl no matter how cute or hot you think he is. What about you? Don't you deserve more?! Aren’t you a star? Aren’t you unique? Aren’t you special? Rules girls don't get put in limbo relationships or limbo dating with men because they don't allow it. What you permit, gains access over you and your time. What you don't permit raises your value and keeps you in reality, away from fantasy.
The rulesgirls world is about how special she is and about making herself feel good. She has those in her world who make her feel good and who appreciate her. IF A MAN LIKES YOU HE WILL ACTUALLY WANT TO SEE YOU NOT E-TETHER OR STRING YOU ALONG. THE BOYS PLAY, THE MEN ACTUAL DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO GET THE WOMAN THEY WANT. REMEMBER THIS: The serious ones are consistent! If a man likes you he will not drop you crumbs as if he's the king of the earth that you should be grateful he's even looking down on you to give you some of his time. Don't be the clinger, just elegantly disappear...drop him. If he doesn't treat you at your worth... NEXT! YOU ARE THE QUEEN. IT'S A WOMAN'S WORLD...SO DON'T LET MEN PLAY YOU WHEN YOU HOLD THE KEYS TO THE GAME!