I've had a surge of women lately complaining or saying negative things about men or cursing their own love lives - this is NOT the rules way!! A CUAO would never say things such as "There are no good men left out there." The famous one: "All men are dogs" OR "Men are something else, its a wonder their human" OR "Don't make me laugh, men don't have feelings." OR "All the men i get are cheapskates."
GIRLS... GIRLS...GIRLS... YOUR MOUTH SPEAKS WORDS AND YOUR WORDS SEND OUT A VIBRATION FREQUENCY WITHIN YOURSELF, AROUND YOURSELF AND TO THE UNIVERSE. You cannot afford to say and believe such negative things. Girls, even after "bad dates" you cannot say "I'll never meet the one." You may feel that way for a moment but your motto should be..."Not this one, maybe the next one." OR "If not him, someone better." OR "He isn't my Mr Right, he's still out there so no time hanging around mentally or emotionally."
You've heard the expression "Water seeks its own level" "What you think you attract" AND "What you think you become."
I find as a dating coach that women who believe such things continue to have negative experiences or what they call "bad" dates instead of learning experiences or a learnt observational session or season they are in. It's all about perspective and how you frame things.
The CUAO Mindset is higher, this is one aspect of what Ellen and Sherrie meant when they said Being a cuao is a state of mind. It's how you see yourself, your self concept. You don't allow negative things around you to disrupt you on the inside emotionally, mentally or spiritually. You let go, learn the necessary bits of an experience, be thankful and move along. THIS MAY BE HARD FOR SOME OF YOU TO HEAR WHAT I AM ABOUT TO SAY BUT BREATHE AND PONDER IT FOR A MOMENT: "YOU (yes, you beautiful flower) ARE RIGHT WHERE YOU NEED TO BE RIGHT NOW IN THIS SEASON OF YOUR LIFE." Seasons come to teach, to transform and to renew.
In every challenge you face, ask yourself "OK I BELIEVE IN THE UNIVERSE/OR G_D OR ______ OR WHATEVER IT IS YOU RESPECTFULLY BELIEVE IN AND I KNOW YOU ARE SUPPORTING ME SO WHAT IS THE THING THAT I AM SUPPOSE TO GAIN OR LEARN FROM THIS? EVERY EXPERIENCE EVEN PAINFUL ONES SERVE A PURPOSE!"
The way you see things and the words you use create your reality. Be careful of the words you speak. Be careful of the self inflicting curses or negative experiences you attract to yourself by constantly saying negative things about yourself and to yourself. That is NOT self loving!
CUAO TAG/TWITTER BOMB: "A CUAO uplifts herself and her life!"
Stop blocking the positives in your life by keeping the negatives in your mental garden. Everyday and every minute of each day, you water your mind like a garden with the food it needs to see a harvest. What you put inside it depends on the harvest. Abundance cannot come where there is discord. Abundance cannot be attached with the mindset of lack or beneath or the sense of unworthiness. Books have been printed by the 10,000s in the last 8 years on this. Think good thoughts. Think positively about men and about your life, this is one of the steps in which manifestations come. Let abundance come!! Manifestation only occurs when you think the right way about yourself and align your behavior accordingly while doing your part (i.e.The Rules). Stop blocking, so you can start attracting (manifesting).
If you would seriously like to develop a healthy sense of self, a more positive outlook, balance in your mental state, manifest now the desires of your heart and have healthy self esteem, please do not hesitate to reflect and book my CUAO Mindset course now. This course is serious stuff and mindset modification. You can have a read and book this now by clicking here.