It has been brought to my attention and Facebook page recently that men feel the rules are against them. This post is for you.
The rules are not about disrespecting you at all. In fact, the rules aren't against you. The rules aren't even about you.
What I teach and have learnt from various rules material including previous coaching with Sherrie is that the rules aren't about hurting men. Yes, it means we date with self esteem and boundaries but we respect men. We don't say men are all dogs and we certainly don't believe that either.
One last word,
And for those of you asking women out a week in advance or 3 days in advance and she still keeps saying "No" it's because she's just not interested!
Go call and initiate things with the girl who seems receptive, you know... the girl who answers your calls and sees you when you plan ahead by asking her out by Wednesday for Saturday night. She's a real rules girl and she isn't a man hater.